You Don’t Have to Hold It All Alone

There are times in the year - often unspoken, quietly loaded - that stir up far more than they offer in celebration.

For some, these seasons bring connection and joy.
For others, they bring a quiet ache.

🌸 If you find yourself bracing around family gatherings, long weekends, or calendar dates that hold more weight than warmth… this is for you.

So many of us weren’t mothered the way we needed.
We survived by shrinking, smoothing things over, holding it all.

🪷 We became caretakers before we had words for it -
noticing moods, softening tension, over-functioning to stay safe.

And we still carry that invisible job description.
It’s exhausting.

🍃 You’re allowed to set it down - even if that feels unfamiliar.
Learning to stop overfunctioning isn’t selfish.
It’s sacred work.

There are spaces designed to hold this - slowly, gently, without asking you to be the strong one.

The Healing Circle is a small, seasonal online therapy group I offer for those carrying the emotional weight of complex family dynamics.
It’s not about fixing everything.
It’s about loosening what’s heavy, being seen, and letting a bit of relief in.

Learn more or join the waitlist

A Self-Inquiry for You:

If someone I loved were carrying this, how would I care for them?
Can you offer a small part of that care to yourself?

Learn more about The Healing Circle


Lynne Protain

Lynne Protain is a Registered Psychotherapist (RP), Professional Certified Coach (PCC), and Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) teacher based in Toronto.

Her work focuses on how people relate to responsibility, pressure, and emotional load over time - particularly when they are highly capable, thoughtful, and accustomed to carrying a great deal.

Lynne supports individuals navigating burnout, chronic stress, health transitions, and relational patterns shaped by long-standing roles of responsibility, caregiving, and over-functioning. Her writing explores what happens when capacity shifts quietly, and what becomes possible when people slow down enough to understand what has been accumulating rather than pushing through it.

In addition to her psychotherapy practice, Lynne works with professionals, leaders, and organizations through coaching, mindfulness-based programs, and workplace offerings.

Her approach integrates psychotherapy, mindfulness, somatic awareness, and coaching to support clarity, steadiness, and more sustainable ways of living and working.

https://www.lynneprotain.com
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